W�rzburg - Germany
This
is an
open
letter written
by an elderly lady, Anna, a patient in an institute for the elderly.
It is not a letter of denouncement. Anna does not dwell on
describing or criticising the conditions of the elderly in the
institutions. Anna asks for friendship and commitment to alleviate
the loneliness of the patients.
The
letter of Anna is very simple and direct. It is a request for
company, but also an offer of friendship that stresses the profound
dignity of elderly patients. The proposal of the letter is not just
about doing something - even though this is also important � but is
above all the will to break the loneliness of those who are in the
institutes and, very often, of those who are
outside
!
Novara - Italy
The
letter is a proposal of friendship for all. It was born from the
conviction that the elderly, even when they are patients in an
institute, are a great ethical, human, civil, and solidarity
resource and that they can be very useful.
The
proposal of this letter of Anna was collected by the movement "Long
live the elderly�. The campaign which followed it, "An
hour of time", is
addressed to those, elderly and non-elderly, who live the experience
of a bit of free time that the would like to fill usefully for the
others. Often, in fact, there are human and affective energies that
are not used. It seemed important to put together these energies
with the enormous demand for friendship and closeness of the elderly
in the institutes
.
In
these years we have seen how the friendship that the elderly in the
institutes can offer are a beneficial answer to the loneliness or
the poverty of relationships from which many young people and adults
suffer in our society.
Genova - Italy
The
experience of groups
of teenagers who
have begun to visit elderly patients is a very happy one
. If
the elderly receive joy and affection from the young people, it is
also true for young people that having an elderly friend often means
living an experience that helps them to grow, to mature, helps them
understand the value of life. They find the grandfather or
grandmother who they often do not have or the limitless affection
that they often need so much
.
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